Many parents worry when their children fight often. It can be stressful to hear that constant bickering, but conflict is actually a normal part of sibiling relationships and child development!

Sibilings spend a lot of their time together. Sharing toys, space, and attention can make disagreements bound to happen. Young children may not know how to express their feelings clearly, and older children tend to get annoyed easier. These differences in sibilings can lead to conflict, but this is expected.

Sibiling relationships are never entirely positive or negative. One moment they can be laughing and playing, and the next they are ‘enemies’. This does not mean that the realtionship is unhealthy, but it shows that they are learning how to navigate social interaction properly.

Conflict supports development and helps children learn important life skills. They can learn how to problem-solve, better understand other’s feeligs, control their emotions, and develop a sense of independence. These are all interpersonal skills they will need to create a healthy social life.

This article takes a look at the ‘essential ingredients’ and important factors in a sibiling relationship. Parents play a very important role in helping to build healthy relationships. They can stay calm during conflicts, help children talk through their problems, teach simpler problem-solving and emotional regulation skills, encourage shared activities, and treat children fairly and with respect. Instead of stopping every argument, parents can guide children towards better ways of learning to manage conflict. The goal is not to eliminate conflict, but help children learn to handle it in a healthy way.

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Grace Hoey

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

We all know comic books for the eye-catching art and fast-paced storytelling, but can they be used in the classroom too?

In his Ted Talk “How comic books can help you learn” Gene Luen Yang says absolutely! Comic books appeal to kids in an age when they are so accustomed to visual media. As a tool for education, comic books allow students the flexibility to read as slow or as fast as they need, something that tradition lecture styles make difficult. They’ve been popular for decades now, but are now making their way into the classroom as more and more comic book writers focus on writing educations stories. Comic books are also getting kids to read more in general, something we know is so important for kids during these foundational years of education.

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Afrah Rafi

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

The presence of AI is more prevalent than many realize: social media algorithms, generative AI, conversational agents. Between Alexa, Siri, and ChatGPT, it is important for parents, caregivers, and teachers alike to understand the impact of AI exposure and interaction on their children’s development as we continue to advance towards an AI-driven society.

Interaction and use of AI presents two major concerns in children’s critical thinking and social development. While AI offers instant access to information and assistance, it can inhibit children’s ability to think critically and evaluate the credibility of the information given to them. However, this issue can be easily resolved by educating children in AI literacy. It is important for children to understand the information that AI presents is not always correct. Similar to evaluating information and news in the media, educators should emphasize the potential spread of misinformation in AI. Reflection prompts installed by developers operate alongside educators in alleviating this issue as they attempt to encourage critical thinking in children. These efforts are in place in many conversational AI tools.

Engagement with AI can also have a significant effect on children’s social interaction and politeness. Children can pick up linguistic habits from AI and implement them to social interactions with their families and peers. Since AI cannot replicate real conversations and does not always follow typical social norms or encourage the use of polite language, engagement with AI can result in rude or inappropriate language in children. In the same way, since communicating with AI is not the same as human interaction, these interactions lack empathy and shared experiences. While developers have begun to introduce politeness through the implementation of polite sayings like “Thank you” in response to the use of “Please”, AI can never replace true companionship or human interaction.

Despite these concerns, AI can provide potential benefits to children’s development within certain parameters. AI developed with learning principles can provide productive scaffolding in directing students’ work and tools in improving task performance to encourage critical thinking. Alongside the efforts by educators, this collaboration between teachers and developers is essential in ensuring children are supported rather than hindered by AI.

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Chelsey Ko

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

Welcome back to Trivia Tuesday with UConn KIDS!

 

Last week’s question was “What sense is most developed at birth?

The answer is: B) Hearing

 

This week’s trivia question is:

By age 8, about what percentage of U.S. children have regular access to a smartphone or tablet?

A)  50%

B) 75%

C) 90%

D 97.5%

STAY TUNED NEXT WEEK!

With all the recent snow days, parents might be stuck at home hearing a lot of “I’m bored” from their kids all day. While most parents feel pressure to fix it right away, this article brings up great points that explain how boredom is actually not a bad thing.

1. Boredom helps kids slow down and notice the world around them. Instead of always being on screens or in planned activities, they start paying attention to small things and learning naturally. Kids are naturally curious, and working with their imagination, boredom gives them opportunities to explore.

2. Mental breaks are important. Being constantly busy can be overwhelming, and boredom gives their brains time to rest.

3. Creativity flourishes when kids are bored. They have to come up with their own ideas, like building something, pretending, or making games. These moments help them learn how to solve problems on their own. If everything is always planned for them, they do not get that chance.

4. Boredom also helps kids become more independent. Even something simple like figuring out what to do during a snow day teaches decision making and responsibility. These small moments actually matter more than they may seem.

Especially during snow days, it might be okay to let kids be bored sometimes instead of trying to fill every moment. That space helps them grow!

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Grace Hoey

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

Grace Hoey is a Spring 2026 research assistant for UConn KIDS. She is a sophomore majoring in Human Development & Family Sciences and is in the Early Childhood Specializations program. She also works with the infants at the Child Development Labs. After graduation, she plans to attend occupational therapy school. Grace is so excited to have this opportunity!

Have you ever wondered how your baby’s exposure shapes them as a person?

DeeDee Yates’ TED Talk, “Do the first 1,000 days determine the rest of your life?” explores this concept by examining the scale of influences on an infant’s development. In this video, she emphasizes the importance of early interventions within babies’ first 1,000 days after birth, acknowledges the numerous stages they pass through and begin with, and the several factors that can affect and shape them during this period.

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Chelsey Ko

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

Agency and Opportunity in Early Adolescence: Investigating Gender-Specific Patterns in Developmental Trajectories Using Longitudinal Data

This study explores how individual agency develops during early adolescence (ages 10–14) and how external opportunity structures—like parenting behavior and neighborhood context—differentially shape agency development for boys and girls. The study zooms in specifically on gender-specific patterns in development over time, various types of influence (household, parental, peer, neighborhood), as well as two key domains of agency: Freedom of Movement and Voice. The illustration of “The Unequal Opportunity Race” is a demonstration of this fundamental idea: no matter how fast you run, some of us have a head start.

This study meets at the intersection of developmental cognitive psychology and sociology,  studying both the effects of the environment and identities, as well as individual agency, to create a more comprehensive understanding of how the things we can control and the things we cannot both play a role in shaping who we become. The goal of this study is to explore differences in how agency devlopmes thought adolescence, particularly across genders, to help better understand and promote adolescent empowerment.

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Cooper Armogida

UConn KIDS Research Assistant

Welcome back to Trivia Tuesday with UConn KIDS!

 

Last weeks question was “Which cognitive milestone is most related to why peek-a-boo is such a fun game for babies?”

The answer is C. Object permanence

 

This weeks trivia question is:

What sense is most developed at birth?

a. Sight

b. Hearing

c. Taste

d. Smell

Come back next week to view this week’s answer!

Can you tell what a baby’s cry means? Are they hungry, sick, uncomfortable, or in pain? Chances are, if you are parent or someone with experience taking care of babies, you would be able to accurately identify whether a baby’s cry indicates whether they are in pain. But if you haven’t spent time caring of babies, you might have some learning to do!

When a baby expresses pain through their cry, there are distinctive sound elements that can separate that cry from a different one, and these are universal amongst all babies. Some such elements include cries that are longer, louder, and with more shifting pitch then other infant cries. Because of this phenomena, it has long been thought that adults are able to differentiate by ear, whether a baby’s cry is one of pain or not. However, the researchers of this study wanted to see whether that was an ability all adults possess, or one that comes with experience and time.

To determine this, they conducted an experiment with five groups of participants: adults with no caregiving experience, adults with some caregiving experience, parents of children 5 years old or older, parents of babies less than 2 years old, and adults with ample professional caregiving experience. They had the adults do two sets of experiments, one where they tried to determine whether the cries of a familiar baby were of pain or just discomfort, and one where they tried to do the same thing but with an unfamiliar baby. The familiar babies’ discomfort cries had been played for the adults a few hours prior to the experiment, allowing the adults to familiarize themselves with how the baby sounds and be able to distinguish that baby from other.

The results showed that adults with no caregiving experience could identify cries of pain or discomfort no better than chance, correctly choosing only 53.4% of the time. Adults with some caregiving experience were a little better at identifying cries, but only those of the familiar babies, choosing correctly 57.3% of the time. Parents of children 5 years old or older and adults with ample professional caregiving experience both were able to identify the familiar babies’ cry with greater accuracy, this time choosing correctly 65.5% and 71.1% of the time, respectively. Parents of babies less than 2 years old, however, were able to identify  the cries of pain of both a familiar baby and of an unfamiliar baby, choosing correctly 71.2% of the time for a familiar baby and 64.2% of the time for an unfamiliar baby.

This study indicates that the ability to recognize a baby’s cry as one of pain comes from experience listening to babies’ cries. Experience changes the way in which we hear and distinguish between cries, and greater experience can allow someone to accurately identify whether a baby is crying in pain, even if it is their first time hearing that baby cry!

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Thank you!

Afrah Rafi

UConn KIDS Research Assistant