Being a new parent can be both exciting and extremely nerve wracking at the same time. Truthfully there is no “right” way to do things and there isn’t going to be a miracle solution. If you are a new parent, hopefully a few words of encouragement can help put your mind at ease. 

The most important thing to remember is that there is no ideal or perfect parent. With that being said here are some encouraging words from real parents:

“Trust your instincts more than what others will tell you ‘is the right thing to do’”

“Saying ‘no’ isn’t easy. Being a parent doesn’t always mean that your kids are happy with you. Being your kids biggest fan is the most important part of the job! Choose your battles carefully, making sure it is really worth the fight.”

“Do not judge other parents (and their parenting styles) and their kids. You have no idea what goes on in their life. Also, make sure you keep your other identities in life- as wife, friend, employee, etc.”

If you want to read more quotes from real parents, or add your own advice, read here! https://community.today.com/parentingteam/post/words-of-wisdom-for-new-parents-from-real-parents

Kaitlyn Vitucci, UConn KIDS Research Assistant

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